Booking · Contact · Next Steps
Ready to book? Follow this exactly.
If you've read through everything and still feel drawn in, this is how you contact me. I pay close attention to detail — how you handle this page tells me a lot.
Initial contact is by email only. Other options may come later, but this first step is non-negotiable.
How to contact me
Follow the structure below. Messages that ignore it or try to work around my process get deleted.
Email for booking
Address: hello@mxleomars.com
If privacy matters to you (it should), consider setting up a dedicated email account with a provider like ProtonMail.
Use this email subject line:
Booking Inquiry – [First Name + Middle/Last Initial(s)] – [City / Location]
Email template I expect you to copy
I welcome long, detailed introductions, but please keep your initial email reasonably concise. I value clarity, respect, and specificity. Adjust the wording if you like to make it your own, but don't skip sections.
Hi Leo,
My name is [preferred name], and my pronouns are [i.e., he/his, she/her, they/them, etc.], I'm [age] and based in [city]. I found You via [where you found me].
I'm interested in booking [length of time, e.g., 1–2 hours, an overnight, etc.] in [city you want to see me in] on [preferred date(s) and time windows, e.g., 3 PM – 5 PM].
I'm looking for [a few sentences or paragraphs about what you're hoping for, any relevant interests or limits, and your experience level].
I'd like [You to host / to host myself — if hosting yourself, tell Me where or let Me know you're still figuring it out]. For the deposit, I'd like to use [Cash App, crypto, or Zelle]. For the remaining balance, I'd like to pay in [cash, Cash App, crypto, or Zelle].
I've read Your Screening page and [have attached my recent STI results / will provide my STI results once we've spoken / will get an STI screen scheduled]. I've also read the rest of Your website, and I'm comfortable with Your expectations and will follow Your instructions.
If You're available and interested, please let me know if You think we're a good fit.
Thank You for Your time,
[Your preferred name]
What happens next
Once you send your email, here's the flow:
- • If I believe we're a fit, I'll reply with next steps, confirm screening, and give you a clear rate based on what you've described.
- • If what you want is more involved, I may ask a few clarifying questions first so the rate actually matches it.
- • If I'm unavailable but like the fit, I'll say so and either offer alternate dates or let you know I'd like to revisit later. Either way, you're now on my shortlist.
- • If we're moving forward, we'll lock in the date, time, length, and any final details.
- • I'll send a brief confirmation with any final logistics and deposit details.
- • A deposit secures your booking; until it's received, the date isn't confirmed. The remaining donation balance is due at the start of our time together.
One thoughtful message is enough; if we're a fit, you'll hear from me.
About apps, DMs, and other platforms
Internal messaging systems (site inboxes, DMs, etc.) aren't encrypted or truly private. They can be stored, scanned, or exposed later.
Because of that, I don't use internal messaging to handle bookings. You may see me there, but I expect you to move to email and follow this page.
After your initial email, if we're a fit, we can move to another platform for logistics and follow-up. You're welcome to suggest a secure option (Signal, Telegram, Session, ProtonMail, text, etc.), but I make the final call.
If this feels too structured, I'm not your guy.
If you've read everything and still feel that pull, draft your message, take a breath, and send it.